Reasei Kuch
English 101: college writing
Holly Pappas
Argument
Are you one of the bullying victims? There are many
people are had been though this too, you are not alone. As we all know that
bullying is really bad and it need to stop from our society. Current bullying
is a big issue in US. There are so many cases about bullying and most of the
bullying occurs is in classroom. Most of the times, the teacher don’t aware of
bullying is occurs in their classroom. The teachers and the adult supervisors
should pay more attention and take bullying more serious.
What is school bullying? There are many bullying cases
around globe such as cyber bullying, intimidation, social alienation, indirect
bullying, verbal bullying and physical bullying. In general, “Bullying is
intentionally harmful, aggressive behavior of a more powerful person or group
of people directed repeatedly toward a less powerful person, usually without privation.”
(“Bullying at school among older adolescents”) Some teachers still don’t understand
this bullying mean. When a student was tease another student for a few time is verbal
bullying but the teachers think that they just joking when they not. I believe
that teachers should pay close more attention even it was just small things. Small
problem can lead to big problem. While it is small problem, they should solve
it.
When
I was in high school, I was a victim of verbal bullying. The bully was made fun
of me, name-calling, and tease and so on. Also dress differently from them because
I’m from different country so they often tease at me. I knew how scary and struggle
it was to be victim of bullying. At the time I could only spoke a little English
so it was hard for me to tell other about the bullying but I did try to tell my
teacher. Sometime, I tried to tell the teacher but they just ignore me and told
us to be quite. Tried after tired, I couldn’t get the help that I needed so I just
gave up. I stayed quiet and ignore everyone throughout the high school period. I
did left out in the classroom. I was always tired and exhausted to keep up but I
didn’t give up. I kept on trying and I made it to now. What if things get
harder and harder, I don’t know what I would do. What if the bullying victim couldn’t
keep it up like me? What if they give up? Some victims wanted or even kill themselves
because they couldn’t take it anymore? When the bullying occurring, where was
the teacher and why didn’t they do anything?
There
are many reasons why students don’t want to go to school is to avoided bullying.
“ Kearney cites studies indicating that students who have been bullied are
twice as likely to feel unsafe at school compared with non-victimized students,
and that 20% of children in elementary school would rather skip school to avoid
being bullied. “ (“He’s okay on weekends”) If the students don’t even feel safe at
school, they can’t learn or study. Teachers, counselors, principals and supervisors
as the adults in school should have made the school feel safe for every student.
Since school isn’t safe for the bullied victims, then they would rather stay
home. They put themselves away from everyone around them.
“One recent study reports that in school
settings, bullying is missed by adults 96% of the time.” (“What Parents Can Do
When Bullying is Downplayed School”) most of the bully occurs in the classroom
and the teacher didn’t catch it. Teachers are the supervisors in the classroom.
They need to do a better job so bullying can cut down. Some people would say
that the teacher are busy focused on what is going on. The teachers would defense
themselves that they didn’t see it happening or they were just being kids. They
don’t take bullying serious enough to do something about it. The teachers’ lack
of awareness can cause the bully have the power to bullied other students. This
make the bullying victim feel helpless and overwhelmed. Some of bullied victim even
kill themselves.
There
are many cases of students that kill themselves around the globe because of bullying.
According to Teen Commits Suicide Due to Bullying: Parents Sue School for Son’s
Death article, there were four students committed suicide. Those cases were
connected to bullying. Although, each case was in different time period but all
of those students were in the same classroom and in same school. Teacher was
failed to protect the students. Mentor Public School District communications
director stated that those cases weren’t a problem and it wasn’t connected to bullying.
I don’t understand how is that is not a problem, this many students kill
themselves in the school. The school must take bullying more serious or many
more students will in danger.
When
bullying occurring in classroom, the teacher should move their table. If the bully
still repeats the same mistake, the teacher should send the student to the
office or student counselor. Even when the teacher doesn’t catch the bullying situation,
the teacher should be more open to listen and try to figure out what was going
on. It is not easy to pay attention to every student in one classroom with one
teacher. But as long as the teachers take bullying more serious and help, the
bullying will cut down. As the teacher, protector your students that are in
your classroom and make sure they feel safe. For bully victims out there, you
should go talk to your parents, teachers or friends. You are not alone, there are
people will go help you. But you need to go get the help, don’t be scary and
feel hopeless.